While most forms of mass media portray the experience of mental illness inaccurately, music tends to have a better track record, perhaps because it is based on the songwriters’ own experiences rather than what a corporate executive thinks will make money (though music isn’t always immune to this sort of influence).
I’m creating this post in hopes that it can be used by people with mental illness to feel less alone and also to better explain to friends what they’re experiencing.
Note: Personally, when depressed, I have a strong desire to listen to depressing music, which can sometimes make me feel far more depressed. If this happens to you as well, please carefully monitor your mood to avoid making it worse.
My husband and I have tried to go through the original list and take off as many of the songs that don’t seem to be related to mental illness. A look at the full list, with the deleted songs, would show just how little most people know about the true effects of mental illness.
Attribution: [L]ist of songs about mental illness. (2007, March 18). On Crazyboards.org. Retrieved 20:38, July 30, 2009, from http://www.crazyboards.org/forums/index.php?showtopic=22335. Text originally based on text from Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (deleted page). Any songs that I’ve added to the original list are in bold. I haven’t listened to most songs on this list, because I simply don’t have the time.
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* “19th Nervous Breakdown” by The Rolling Stones
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* “4st 7lb” by Manic Street Preachers (about anorexia nervosa)
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* “A Better Place, A Better Time” by Streetlight Manifesto (anti-suicide)
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* “A Good Man Is Hard To Find” by Sufjan Stevens
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* “About To Crash” by Dream Theater
* “Adam’s Song” by Blink 182 about Depression and Suicide – personal favorite
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* “A Long December” by Counting Crows
* “Alcohol” by Barenaked Ladies
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* “Another Stranger Me” by Blind Guardian
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* “Basket Case” by Green Day (Billie Joe Armstrong’s song about his struggle with anxiety)
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* “Be All, End All” by Anthrax (anti-suicide: “Be all, and you’ll be the end all, state of mind, euphoria”)
* “Bed Of Razors” by Children of Bodom
* “Beethoven (I Love to Listen to)” by Eurythmics (about obsessive-compulsive disorder)
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* “Behind Blue Eyes” by The Who (“Nobody knows what it’s like, to be the bad man…”)
* “Behind Grey Walls” by Richard Thompson
* “Between A Laugh And A Tear” by John Mellencamp (anti-suicide: “and thats as good as it can get for us, and there aint no reason to stop tryin’”)
* “Beyond the Grey Sky” by 311
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* “Bipolar” by Blonde Redhead
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* “Bi-Polar” by Assemblage 23
* “Bi-Polar Bear” by Stone Temple Pilots
* “Bi-Polar Disorder” by The Lord Weird Slough Feg
* “Black Crow Blues” by Bob Dylan (bipolar protagonist, sometimes “too high to fall”, sometimes “so low, I don’t know if I can come up at all”)
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* “Bleed American” by Jimmy Eat World
* “Bleed Like Me” by Garbage
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* “Blood Makes Noise” by Suzanne Vega
* “Borderline” by Sufjan Stevens
* “Born To Lose” by Social Distortion
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* “Brain Damage” by Pink Floyd (“the lunatic is in my head”; later receives a lobotomy, “you raise the blade, you make the change”)
* “Breakin’” by The Music
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* “Brian Wilson” by Barenaked Ladies (narrator has bipolar disorder, compares himself to Brian Wilson)
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* “Burning Herself” by Harry Chapin (song about a girl who burns herself with cigarettes)
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* “Can You Believe It” by The Bolshoi
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* “Carrying Cathy” by Ben Folds
* “Cars and Calories” by Saves the Day
* “Cherry Blossom Clinic” by The Move
* “Chronic Schizophrenia” by Wesley Willis
* “Cinderella Man” by Rush (about a man whose transition from poverty to wealth has made him manic depressive)
* “Cigarettes and Chocolate Milk” by Rufus Wainwright
* “Cocoon” by Assemblage 23
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* “Coffee and Cigarettes” by Augustana
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* “Compulsive Prep” by Mest
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* “Courage” By Superchick about having an eating disorder
* “Cracking” by Suzanne Vega
* “Crackle And Drag” by Paul Westerberg
* “Crazy” by Barenaked Ladies
* “Crazy” by Gnarls Barkley
* “Crazy Man Michael” by Fairport Convention
* “Crazy Train” by Ozzy Osbourne (“Mental wounds still screaming, driving me insane, I’m goin’ off the rails on a crazy train”)
* “Cut” by Plumb is about self-harm.
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* “Delusional” by Saves the Day (paranoia)
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* “Depression” by Black Flag
* “Destroyer” by The Kinks (narrator has “paranoia, the destroyer”)
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* “Ding Dong” by Nellie McKay
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* “Dirty Knife” by Neko Case
* “Disconnected” by Rollins Band
* “Disorder” by Goldfinger
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* “Down in It” by Nine Inch Nails (depression/bipolar: “I was up above it, now I’m down in it”)
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* “Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde” by The Who (analogy made in discussing alcoholism; “When I drink my potion, my character changes”)
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* “Ease Your Feet In The Sea” by Belle & Sebastian
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* “Ellsworth” by Rascal Flatts (about Alzheimer’s)
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* “Emergency Exit” by Beck (suicide)
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* “Escape” by Muse
* “Evaporated” by Ben Folds Five
* “Escher” by Teenage Fanclub
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* “Everybody Hurts” by R.E.M. (told from the point of view of someone comforting a friend who is suicidal)
* “Everybody Knows That You Are Insane” by Queens of the Stone Age
* “Everything For Free” by K’s Choice
* “Everything is Alright” by Motion City Soundtrack
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* “Fire and Rain” by James Taylor (recovery from depression)
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* “Fix Me” by Rise Against
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* “Flying High Again” by Ozzy Osbourne
* “Free Fall” by In Flames
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* “Get in Line” by Barenaked Ladies (paranoia)
* “Girl Anachronism” by The Dresden Dolls (suicide)
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* “God of Wine” by Third Eye Blind
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* “Gone” by Bouncing Souls
* “Gotta Get Away” by The Offspring
* “Grey Street” by Dave Matthews Band
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* “Heimdalsgate Like a Promethean Curse” by Of Montreal
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* “Hey Foxymophandlemama, Thats Me” by Pearl Jam (includes recorded statements from real patients in a mental hospital)
* “Hey, Hey, I’m Down” by puressence
* “Hey Man Nice Shot” by Filter
* “Hold on” by Good Charlotte (personal favorite – anti-suicide)
* “Hold on” by Kim Wilde
* “Holy” by The Golden Palominos
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* “Hurt” by Nine Inch Nails and covered by Johnny Cash (drug addiction and guilt)
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* “I’ll Be That Girl” by Barenaked Ladies
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* “I Think I’m Gonna Kill Myself” By Elton John (suicide)
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* “Into the Ocean” by Blue October (suicidal ideation)
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* “Japanese Gum” by Her Space Holiday (The girl mentioned in “Japanese Gum” has Borderline Personality Disorder, and the boy mentioned is someone that desperately wants to help her.)
* “Jeremy” by Pearl Jam (personal favorite – can be triggering)
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* “Jugband Blues” by Pink Floyd
* “Jump They Say” by David Bowie
* “Jumper” by Third Eye Blind
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* “Largactyl” by Amebix
* “Last Resort” by Papa Roach
* “Last Straw” by Jack’s Mannequin
* “Lean On Me (I Won’t Fall Over)” by Carter The Unstoppable Sex Machine
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* “Lithium” by Evanescence
* “Lithium” by Nirvana
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* “Longview” by Green Day
* “Loaded Gun” by The Reverend Horton Heat (suicide – may be triggering)
* “Loose Lips” by Kimya Dawson (personal favorite)
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* “Lucky” by Britney Spears
* “Lucy at the Gym” by Jill Sobule
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* “Mad World” by Tears for Fears (I prefer the version by Gary Jules – personal favorite, depression)
* “Major Tom” by Peter Schilling
* “Make Me Bad” by Korn
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* “Manic Depression” by Jimi Hendrix – This song describes both the euphoric highs associated with creating music (“Music, sweet music/I wish I could caress”) as well as the desperation and suicidal tendencies perhaps associated with mixed states (“Really ain’t no use in me hanging around”).
* “Mary Jane” By Alanis Morissette (depression)
* “Mary Jo” by Belle & Sebastian
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* “Meds” by Placebo
* “Medication” by Garbage
* “Medication” by Modest Mouse
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* “Medicine Bottle” by Red House Painters
* “Melancholia” by The Who
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* “Memory Lane” by Elliott Smith
* “Mental” by Eels
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* “Modern Chemistry” by Motion City Soundtrack
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* “Monster” by The Automatic
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* “Mother” by The Police
* “Mother Stands for Comfort” by Kate Bush – The song is about a madman finding comfort in his mother. The lyrics “Make me do this, make me do that…” are about the voices in his head.
* “Mother’s Little Helper” by The Rolling Stones – This song is about Valium addiction.
* “Mr. Self-Destruct” by Nine Inch Nails
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* “Narcolepsy” by Ben Folds Five
* “Narcolepsy” by Third Eye Blind
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* “Natalie Marie and 1cc” by The Spill Canvas
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* “Night and Day” by The Good Life – Discusses self-harm, specifically cutting
* “Nightminds” by Missy Higgins (bipolar)
* “No Place For You” by Paul Westerberg (suicidal ideation)
* “No Rain” by Blind Melon
* “No Self-Control” by Peter Gabriel
* “Nobody Home” by Pink Floyd
* “Not an addict” by K’s Choice (personal favorite)
* “Not There” by James
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* “Outburst” by Wesley Willis
* “Out of Mind” by The Cure
* “Out of Mind” by Queensrÿche from Promised Land (album)
* “Out of My Depth” by Everclear
* “Out The Window” by Violent Femmes
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* “Overkill” by Men at Work (personal favorite)
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* “Panic Attack” by Dream Theater
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* “Perfect Blue Buildings” by The Counting Crows
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* “Poem” by Taproot
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* “Rainy Day in June” by The Kinks
* “Rainy Day Parade” by Jill Sobule
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* “River Man” by Nick Drake
* “Rope Ends” by Pain of Salvation (suicide)
* “Roses In The Hospital” by Manic Street Preachers
* “Round Here” by Counting Crows
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* “Sad Lisa” by Cat Stevens (depression)
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* “Scars & Stitches” by Guster
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* “Schizophrenic Conversations” by Staind
* “Seasick, Yet Still Docked” by Morrissey
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* “Shadow Creator” by Skyfire
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* “She Misses Him” by Tim Rushlow (about Alzheimer’s Disease)
* “She’s Falling Apart by Lisa Loeb
* “She’s Got Issues” by The Offspring
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* “She’s Lost Control” by Joy Division
* “Shine On You Crazy Diamond” by Pink Floyd
* “Shooting Star” by Harry Chapin
* “Sick” by Lagwagon
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* “Six Degrees of Inner Turbulence” by Dream Theater (bipolar disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, schizophrenia, autism, post-partum depression, and dissociative identity disorder)
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* “Sleepless” by King Crimson
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* “Someone Saved My Life Tonight” by Elton John
* “So Nice, So Smart” by Kimya Dawson (personal favorite
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* “Soul to Squeeze” by Red Hot Chili Peppers
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* “Stan” by Eminem (dangerous obsession)
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* “Steven” by Senses Fail
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* “Still Life” by Iron Maiden
* “Stockholm Syndrome” by Muse
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* “Sucked Out” by Superdrag
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* “Suicide Solution” by Ozzy Osbourne
* “Sunny Skies” by James Taylor
* “Sunrise, Sunset” by Bright Eyes
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* “Sweetest Perfection” by Depeche Mode
* “System” by In Flames
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* “Take Me Home” by Phil Collins
* “Take This Life” by In Flames
* “Teenage Depression” by Eddie & The Hot Rods
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* “The Becoming” by Nine Inch Nails
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* “The Enemy Is You” by Elliott Smith
* “The Final Cut” by Pink Floyd
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* “The Gash” by The Flaming Lips
* “The Glass Prison” by Dream Theater
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* “The Test That Stumped Them All” by Dream Theater
* “The Trial” by Pink Floyd
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* “Things Have Changed” by Bob Dylan
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* “Today” by The Smashing Pumpkins
* “Tomorrow Tomorrow” by Elliott Smith
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* “Too Much On My Mind” by The Kinks
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* “Try Not to Breathe” by R.E.M.
* “Twisted” by Joni Mitchell
* “Two Points for Honesty” by Guster
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* “Uncorrected Personality Traits” by Robyn Hitchcock and the Egyptians
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* “Unwell” by Matchbox Twenty
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* “Various Stages” by Great Lake Swimmers
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* “Vincent” by Don McLean
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* “War on Drugs” by Barenaked Ladies
* “War Inside My Head” by Dream Theater
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* “Weep for Jamie” by Peter, Paul and Mary
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* “When I Fall” by Barenaked Ladies
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* “Who Can It Be Now?” by Men at Work
* “Why Does It Always Rain On Me?” by Travis
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* “Withdrawn” by James
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* “You Gotta Be Crazy” by Pink Floyd
* “You Knew Me To The End” by Geri Karlstrom
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* “Your Evil Soul” by The Spill Canvas
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I will be updating this post over time. If you have any songs you’d like me to add, please leave a comment. If there are songs that you think don’t belong here, please tell me which ones and why. Thanks!